What does it mean to fall in love with yourself? In order to answer this question, you first have to acknowledge the resistance that comes up around asking it. You may believe it’s egotistical or selfish or narcissistic. We’re a culture obsessed with falling in love with “the one.” To begin to shift your focus will feel foreign. But doing even just one nice thing for yourself each day will change how you show up in your relationships. It is like repeating an affirmation but living it instead of simply speaking it. Turning self-love into lived experience is like putting on fresh glasses: it begins to open up space for new possibility, new ways of relating to others and the world around you. It also reinforces to the subconscious that you wish to matter, and are ready to be wholly and completely visible in all areas of your life.
