Gratitude and Birds
We now know that gratitude is good for us, that taking the time to acknowledge our blessings positively affects our chemistry. Our outlook changes. It creates a sense of spaciousness in our bodies.
I asked a client recently how she knew that she was grateful. She had been talking about improved communication with her partner. “I feel it,” she said smiling. “Close your eyes and notice where you feel it,” I said. She slowly closed her eyes and took a deep breath. A few moments later the reflection of a bird in flight appeared near where she was sitting.
Gratitude has its own energy, it moves things, clears obstacles.
When my client opened her eyes she described where in her body she felt the pleasure of gratitude. Something had shifted in her; she said she wanted more of it. A new appreciation for her role in the relationship had emerged, for what might still be under the surface.
Gratitude is a kind of aperture through which we see where we have been, and where we want to go. It allows us to expand our vision for what is possible because it makes clear how much we already have. We begin to understand on a somatic level that our lives are abundant because each day is filled with its own precious magic.